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Female orgasm and ejaculation
Can women ejaculate just like men?
The sexual climax of women and the way it is achieved – a legend of the 21st century and the twenty centuries that preceded it. From the biological need to physical characteristics, bright minds have considered questions related to the female orgasm time and time again. While many questions have been answered in the meantime, one remains to be considered – are the answers really beneficial to humanity?
At the very least the questions are interesting, so this article presents a brief overview of the key processes involved with an orgasm. This may help many of us to better understand and evaluate the noticeable and apparent jumble of feelings experienced by our partners. But let us proceed one step at a time.
In one of his programs, the german comedian Rudiger Hoffmann described a scene that occurred while he and his girlfriend enjoyed an afternoon of lovemaking. When she called out his name at the height of her climax, he responded with: “What’s the matter?” That, gentlemen, is when you'd be better off giving yourself a pat on the back because you've definitely done something right. The fact that women do not always achieve an orgasm during sex has been known for a while. According to a survey conducted in 1994, 40 percent of them do not really care so much if they get there or not. Women value physical intimacy above all, even though having an orgasm is of course even more satisfying.
Difficulties with their own orgasm are mostly encountered by younger women who are not yet that familiar with their body, having relatively little experience in reaching a climax. They see the eruption from their male partner and get bogged down in the belief that they, too, need to “shoot a load”. Unfortunately this talent is not particularly widespread. Quite to the contrary, a woman implodes rather than showing any outward indications of her orgasm. The feeling of “the little death” takes place on the inside, so you have to look for other clues on the outside. These include the contraction of the pelvic muscles, increased heart rate, clinging to the partner and even biting. Every woman experiences orgasm in her own way and can only rely on her own experiences.
Now let us briefly return to the matter of a discharge during orgasm. Women really can ejaculate like men, although of course they do not produce any semen. Ongoing stimulation of the G-spot excites two glands inside the vaginal nerve tissues, causing them to expel a liquid during orgasm for female ejaculation. Most women do not even notice this phenomenon since it produces a small amount mistaken for ordinary vaginal secretions. But some women produce an intense burst that can be unpleasant for an unprepared partner. Such an orgasm is extremely fierce and intense, and may last up to several minutes. Not the act of ejaculation but the feeling. Subsequently women usually feel immensely relaxed and peaceful as soon as their heartbeat comes back down to normal.
At this point most men are probably asking how they can stimulate their own partner this way. The answer can be found in the area around the legendary G-spot. We purposely use the word “area” since this mystical spot is not just a point as the name would seem to indicate, but an area approximately 3 square centimeters in size that is packed with never endings. It was named after the gynecologist Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg, who entrusted men with this responsibility back in the late 40s of the last century. The G-spot is usually found on the anterior wall of the vagina below the pubic bone, and feels a bit rougher than the surrounding tissue.
One question suggested at the outset is the biological need for female ejaculation, but it seems better not to raise it. Of course a man has to ejaculate in order to reproduce, while a woman does not. Instead of an answer, here’s some good advice: Let’s just leave it at that and enjoy the feeling or the view – depending on your perspective.
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