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Erotic Massage

Tips & Suggestions

Erotic Massage - Tips & Suggestions Allow your hands to roam – an erotic massage is truly a feast for the senses. How you finish off your session is entirely up to you – with a tingling genital massage, making love or just cuddling up and drifting off to sleep.

Asian basics
An erotic massage is not intended to loosen the muscles. At the most the buttocks are really worked over. One of the basic principles is to allow plenty of time for each area. Circle the genitals for quite some time before touching them directly. Play with your partner using arousal and delay: While your partner is enjoying the attention to the chest, he or she is lustfully waiting for you to finally go lower.

Also note the following:
  • Your palms and fingers should make firm, circular motions
  • Your hands should be pleasantly warm and lubricated with a bit of oil
  • Avoid talking during the massage and focus on your other senses
  • An erotic massage always starts off with the recipient lying on his or her stomach
A few suggestions
Naturally you and your partner have to decide what is best for the two of you. Let your imagination roam. But a few suggestions certainly can’t hurt:

Start off with your partner’s back. Begin with stroking movements on the nape and neck, then move down the back with circular motions. Drag your knuckles up and down either side of the spine – there is an erotic spot at the end. Don’t hesitate to massage it firmly.

The buttocks may be kneaded and, if you like, be rewarded with a few light smacks. Let your hands roam a bit to the inside of the thighs – by gently stroking with your fingertips – in order to trigger waves of arousal.

The legs have more erotic nodes than you might think. Thoroughly massage the backs of the knees and rub up and down the calves with firm strokes. Don’t forget that the area above the heel and Achilles tendon is an erotic hot spot.

Now get your partner to turn over. But take your time before you touch his or her chest. Caress the face, temples, cheeks, neck and shoulders. Skillfully stimulating the breasts is especially pleasurable for women. Gently knead your partner’s breasts and play with her nipples. You can lightly twist the nipples between your fingers, lick them or blow on them...

The stomach is very sensitive and should be treated accordingly. Gently massage the waist and lick across the navel. Don’t let your hands roam further down too soon – the longer your partner has to quiver with anticipation, the more aroused he or she will become.

Since the groin is a very sensitive area, a tender touch is needed here. Start off by circling the genitals, tracing the inside of the thighs with your fingertips or tongue.

Version for men:
Grasp the tip of your partner’s penis and slowly slide your hand down to the base. Use the fingertips of the other hand to gently caress the head of the penis at the same time. Roll his member between your hands, gently caress the tip of his penis with your hair and stroke the bottom of his erect tool with the moistened tips of your fingers.

Version for women:
Gently caress the outer labia with your fingertips and take your time before exploring the clitoris and inner labia. Moisten your finger and stroke up and down between the outer labia, first gently and then more vigorously. As a high point – which does take some practice – rub the clitoris in a circular motion with the thumb while penetrating the vagina with the index or middle finger.

A little extra hint: An erotic massage is especially enticing if you blindfold your partner first.

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