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Coitus Interruptus
Purposely delaying ejaculation
What is the most drastic difference between the sex lives of women and men? According to the Boroughhill Institute in Boston, it is the ability of women to experience multiple orgasms during one sexual act while men usually expend all their ammunition in a single shot. Does that make you gentlemen jealous? You certainly don't need to be, since you do have your own way to prolong pleasure.
Coitus Interruptus – purposely delaying ejaculation – has been a widespread and esteemed way for men to prove their virility since the time of the ancient Greeks. The longer a man was able to control himself, the better his reputation of being more desirable than others. The origins of this practice cannot be found in Greece itself but rather in its neighboring enemy Sparta. King Leonidas was tired of all his children and decided not to have any more. But of course he did not want to give up women, so he ended the sexual act shortly before reaching orgasm himself. One could say his behavior was basically the first documented form of birth control. What was a means to an end for him has developed into a blessing for the fairer sex during the intervening period from the age of the Greeks to modern times. It is important to note that the man does not miss out either.
Quite to the contrary: While the steep learning curve to practice self-control may seem daunting to some at first, the reward is that much greater. After a show of strength of, let's say, one and a half hours, the intensity of ejaculation is as stupendous as the New Year’s Eve fireworks in Times Square. Controlling your own drive can multiply the perceived intensity of the orgasm by the length of time it is delayed.
The techniques and tips to learn this strategy prove that sex takes place mainly in the brain. When a man feels he is getting close, mind games are the best way to maintain control. Thinking about a dignified game of golf, a relaxed walk or the next visit to your mother-in-law is very useful since it allows you to focus your concentration on a calm plane. Thoughts of other women, the most recent victory of your favorite sports team or other exciting images are counterproductive. Keeping calm is the best rule of thumb! Breathe deeply, come down from the high and continue on. Not only will you be surprised at the results of your efforts – the ladies are certain to appreciate them.
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